剧情介绍
影片讲的是，忠厚本分的年轻人皮特是个泥瓦匠，他十分孝顺父母，还亲自为他们造了一所房子。然而父母对他的态度似乎并没有因此而好转。之后，他遇上了心爱的女人艾瑞卡。他们一起搬到了慕尼黑，然而，生活的重压，金钱上的困窘却让皮特这个年轻人渐渐改变，最终沦为了阶下囚，而这一切只是为了让妻子爱他……
该片被一些评论家认为是莱纳尔·沃纳尔·法斯宾德的最佳电影代表作。 A man is interviewed by a sympathetic woman. His tale unfolds, of hard work that never pleases his parents, of a father who denigrates his efforts, of an indifferent mother. He builds them a house. Instead of offering their flat to him and his bride, they give the flat up, so he goes to Munich to work in construction, bringing his wife who is soon pregnant. They buy things on credit; he works overtime. He shows up with flowers and expensive gifts. When construction slows and he works less overtime, he cannot adjust his spending habits: he needs to be loved. Pressures mount. When he snaps, and violence ensues, who will be his victim?
该片被一些评论家认为是莱纳尔·沃纳尔·法斯宾德的最佳电影代表作。 A man is interviewed by a sympathetic woman. His tale unfolds, of hard work that never pleases his parents, of a father who denigrates his efforts, of an indifferent mother. He builds them a house. Instead of offering their flat to him and his bride, they give the flat up, so he goes to Munich to work in construction, bringing his wife who is soon pregnant. They buy things on credit; he works overtime. He shows up with flowers and expensive gifts. When construction slows and he works less overtime, he cannot adjust his spending habits: he needs to be loved. Pressures mount. When he snaps, and violence ensues, who will be his victim?
辛酸的慕漂生活，进城务工的泥瓦匠竭力追寻属于自己的一片未来，父母没有表露出多少关爱，他却十分孝顺父母，依旧葆有孩童般的纯真和善良。他的手里永远都有一束鲜花，送给心爱的人，送给他要去探望的人，送给母亲，然而生活的重压终究压垮了他最后的希望。
法斯宾德挺狠，看的时候感觉是在说自己。采访的段落有点累赘。
小镇青年靠着蚂蚁花呗过上大城市生活
镜头感迷人，法胖的几乎所有电影都是自我映射的小一部分，这是多么复杂又丰沛的一个人，让人同情让人爱
男主像我，疯狂透支蚂蚁花呗，花钱一时爽，还款火葬场。
豆瓣用户对这片是有多感同身受啊？哈哈哈哈。
7.9 缺少爱，渴望爱。还行，只是累觉不爱。
男主终究不明白，爱其实可以是最简单，也是最复杂的情感，而一个人感知爱的能力才是获得幸福的关键，家庭教育最重要的就是培养一个人具备这种能力，生活的窘迫并不代表爱的丧失...
原生态家庭关爱的缺失对一个人的性格形成影响太大了，自童年起，他就生活在渴求父母赞美的期待里，永远怀疑自己做得不够好，永远给自己施压，永远不安永远怀疑；他已经丧失了爱的能力，只有能否让他人满意的衡量标准，可叹可悲；法斯宾德自身经历的投射。
就像恐惧吞噬灵魂与R先生的结合，前者中冷漠与疏离的角色塑造在这部中被用来展现对主角漠不关心的父母，作为主角心理阴影与之后行为的根源，婚后渴求关爱的过程如R先生般是主角受困于心理问题的情节剧。主角夫妻两人的亲密戏份中，对镜子的运用十分伯格曼。
不被爱的人是最不幸的。
年轻人皮特可以说是导演自己，法斯宾德的童年一直被笼罩在无爱和孤独的阴影下，所以会比别人都更渴望获得感情和关注。而他获得感情的一个重要方法就是慷慨的赠予，这种慷慨甚至有些疯狂及不计后果。我只希望你们爱我。
终于让我找回了当初看《恐惧吞噬灵魂》的感觉。
终于看到这部片子了，期待了很久，果然没有叫人失望。成本低，但内容细腻，绵软而又刻骨铭心。这更像是法斯宾德的心灵自语，所以我一直以为我得了和他一样的病。也许这就是为什么，这部电影里全然不见法斯宾德的狂烈和粗暴。大量的推拉和移，稳而含蓄。
"Ich will doch nur, dass ihr mich liebt."